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Dr. Julie Gurner

@drgurner191k followers

Executive Performance Coach. Doc of Psych. Compared to Wendy Rhoades of Billions via WSJ. Newsletter: Inquiries: ⬇

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1Aug 29, '24Controversial take: Americans should be allowed to fully own their own property. Once Paid off, it cannot be taken from you. It should be yours fully, and you no longer owe/pay pro249×7.5M97k12k2.2k
2Aug 2, '25Hate to break your heart, but there is no real meaning to dreams. Dreams are random neural firings. Your brain makes up a story to make sense of it - using memories, experiences, f232×7M7.1k3501.7k
3Apr 2, '25Random fun fact: The harsh and sometimes violent voices people hear with schizophrenia in the US, is not a common feature with people who have schizophrenia in India & Africa. 171×5.2M102k5.5k13k
4Mar 10, '23People have no idea how bad things are right now and the ripple effects. The Silicon Valley Bank situation is catastrophic.69.5×2.1M4.9k490413
5Apr 25, '25Carl Jung hits the "haters" particularly hard.51.2×1.6M27k4.7k10k
6Jan 14, '23After coaching a lot of very successful people, here's an unsexy truth: A lot of success is learning to grind when it's boring. Staying engaged, working, and seeing it through when40.2×1.2M11k1.8k1.8k
7Aug 25, '23Leadership is lonely. Ambition is lonely. Building is lonely. Even if you have a great company or great spouse, a lot of the journey is internal & you're on your own. It's real40.1×1.2M14k3.6k2.2k
8Mar 29, '25If you want a decent paying job that AI isn't disrupting anytime soon... Our sheep shearer makes $200k for 4 months of work.33.3×1M12k5401.8k
9Oct 14, '24“Your job, throughout your entire life, is to disappoint as many people as it takes to avoid disappointing yourself.” - G. Doyle.22.7×686k16k3.5k3.3k
10Jan 14, '25The CEO of Perplexity saying this, should make you sit up, pay attention.21.4×649k5k389854
11Jul 30, '23You don't have time to be excellent at everything. Choose 3 Things. For me, it's business, family, and fitness. If I'm great at those, I don't have time for a lot of things....I'm 19.4×587k2.7k314750
12Sep 9, '24Don’t speak poorly of yourself, even as as a joke. It’s not funny, relatable, or “cute” It’s destructive.19.2×580k15k2.9k1.9k
13Jan 7, '24Real luxury is the ability to have a slow morning if you want it, enjoy a good conversation without rush, eat well, have good health, and a warm home. Brand names and flashy things19×574k14k3.4k1.3k
14Feb 9, '24My spouse and I have "laddered up" our whole careers. One in building mode, the other in earning mode. Then it flips... Another in building mode, the other in earning mode. Fastest18.3×554k4.1k7811.5k
15Nov 12, '21Ambitious people have two options: 1. Marry a supportive partner, who knows and understands exactly what they're signing up for. 2. Do not get married.18.1×040k14k1.9k
18Nov 4, '25"Envy no one. For whatever you see, a price was paid." Isn't that the truth.17.2×521k25k5.8k2.8k
19Oct 8, '24Zuck being a "wife guy" is the most underdiscussed and most interesting thing about him. Makes a statue of her, customizes a vehicle for her (with matching vehicles of sorts)..unap16.8×509k6.2k332473
20Oct 14, '25"Better to be a wolf everyone hates, than a donkey everyone rides." Integrity above everything.15.9×482k21k4.8k2.9k
21Oct 12, '25"A Tiger wearing a bell will starve." - Mongolian proverb Never let them see you coming.15.8×478k18k2.9k3.8k
22Nov 22, '24That 90% of people are not interested in growing personally or professionally....but the ones that are, are just maxxing out life & work, and an absolute joy.15.2×459k7.4k9631.6k
23Jun 9, '25Most people are too casual with the most important things in life.15×454k7.3k9844.9k
24Jul 27, '25Untrue. Statistically the most successful companies are started by people in their 40s.14.9×451k7k817870
25Jun 21, '25He who is rich owns the day.14.8×447k5.9k8323.9k
27Jul 10, '23Heads Up: If you are someone who likes to make progress, and very ambitious... Being actively held back in any way will make you very, very grumpy.14×424k2.7k394460
28May 30, '25As AI becomes more dominant, most people have a small window to make real money. You should take that window & run.14×424k2.8k1611.2k
29Sep 28, '23Rule of thumb when dealing with toxic people.. Keep all interactions: - Positive - Superficial - Brief Give them no information, no fuel, and no authenticity. Keep the good stuff f12.7×385k4.3k8021.1k
32May 10, '24Action reduces fear. Hesitations amplify it.11.9×361k7.2k1.8k1.6k
33Nov 20, '23Burn this ReTweet into your brain, and don't ever allow it to be you. Have the hard conversation, the awkward moments. Act, create, and fight for the life you want.11.8×357k2.5k604852
34Apr 16, '24The confidence to know you can "figure it out" is some of the toughest stuff in the world to contain. That kind of mindset will take you almost anywhere you want to go.10.7×325k7.4k1.7k1.5k
35Jun 2, '24Impulse Control.10.4×315k3.9k950562
38Aug 1, '25"Master the Middle" by @AlexHormozi10.1×307k5.8k8741.6k
40Jun 16, '25Tough is not what you look like. Here's a pic of Sumie Inagaki (39) easily passing David Goggins (30) in the San Diego 24 hour race in 2005. She ran 136 miles during that 24 hrs, h9.7×293k2.8k115478
41Nov 1, '25"Every time you hesitate, someone less talented takes your spot." The world rewards action, not potential.9.7×292k15k2.3k2.6k
42Jan 8, '25A trait I see in people who reach the top .01%? Audacity. As it turns out, the world responds when you put yourself out there. When you give it a real shot for the thing you want—n9.7×292k6.7k8552.8k
44Jul 18, '24Feels like people have lost their ability to logically evaluate almost anything.8.9×271k3.1k535199
46Jul 10, '24High expectations are a form of self-respect.8.6×259k5k1.2k576
49Apr 14, '25You will never see how superficial most new books are, until you read old ones. Old books on human nature have so much meat on the bone...a depth & wealth of information. Read 7.8×236k3.1k2662.2k
50Jan 7, '25Scientifically, doing hard things - and accomplishing them - is linked to happiness.... Maybe it's why so many people who avoid hard things are miserable.7.6×231k6.4k9821.7k
53Feb 20, '25Quick rule when dealing with toxic people.. Keep all interactions: - Positive - Superficial - Brief Give them no (real) information, no fuel & no authenticity. Keep the good st7.0×212k5.3k5111.6k
55Sep 8, '24Make a lot of money. More money, more choices.6.5×197k5.1k779495
56Jul 25, '24I can't stress this enough: Avoid negative people.6.4×195k3.2k577303
57Jan 21, '23Having the ability to wake up on a Saturday to a warm home, healthy, where you can have a leisurely morning over coffee...and just kick around your thoughts & do what you wish 6.4×193k2.5k23979
58Apr 15, '25"The greatest sin you can commit against your own life, is to know what you want - and not to act." - Stafford Do not betray yourself. Take the Chance.6.2×189k7k1.3k1.8k
59Sep 6, '25An underrated law? Kidlin's Law. That if you write down a problem clearly and specifically, you have already solved half of it. The act of clearly & specifically describing a p6.0×182k5.3k7782.4k
61Mar 28, '24You will avoid a lot of problems if you correct & set people straight... the first time. Personally and Professionally.5.5×166k3.8k1.1k683
63Oct 27, '25Your Grandparents were (probably) tougher than you.5.2×159k6k5591.1k
64Jul 28, '24Once you have the confidence & self-knowledge that "I can figure it out"....there really is no stopping you.5.1×153k3k532578
67Apr 25, '24Learning how not to feel pressure from other people, is an incredibly important skill. If you don't learn it, it will be used against you for the rest of your life.4.7×142k2.5k502852
68Nov 5, '25Warren Buffett once said: "You are only looking for 3 qualities in people (you hire): Enthusiasm, Intelligence, and Integrity." Rare to find all 3. Snag them up.4.6×138k5.3k6691.5k
69Aug 3, '25Sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself, is to expose yourself to bigger things. - Tour a dream home for sale - Read the journey of others who have done great things. Find4.5×135k2.9k383821
71Feb 7, '25To succeed and be happy in this world, you have to have a very, very thick skin. If you are outraged, hurt, upset or unable to bounce back from things....this world is going to che4.3×130k3.3k505961
72Mar 5, '25One of the most dangerous distractions for highly capable people isn't social media or comparison... It's seeing possibility everywhere & being unable to limit your bets. You c4.2×127k3.6k457958
73Jun 22, '24If you work hard to be really exceptional at what you do, there will come a day where everything you touch in that area turns to gold. And that is a marvelous, self-satisfying day.4.2×127k2.6k489595
74Mar 13, '22After coaching a lot of very successful people, here's an unsexy truth: A lot of success is learning to grind when it's boring. Staying engaged, working, and seeing it through when3.9×09.6k1.9k1.2k
76May 27, '25"Excellence is beautiful from a distance, and brutal up close." - unknown Probably one of the best ways to describe the madness & obsession it takes to be truly excellent at an3.9×118k3.4k6161.1k
78Sep 11, '25Always remember: You Get what you Tolerate. Tolerate a bad job -> Work in a bad job forever Tolerate disrespect -> Be repeatedly disrespected So much is determined by what we3.5×105k3.6k5021k
79Dec 3, '24Despite what people say, the majority are not really willing to do what it takes - and that's your advantage.3.4×103k2.6k404575
80Sep 21, '24Nothing will limit you faster than your own mind. Nothing will accelerate you faster either.3.4×103k2.5k400394
81Jan 9, '25The most successful people don't add new things to their lives... They ruthlessly eliminate what doesn't matter. A lot of things you take on - you shouldn't.3.4×102k2.6k343555
82Aug 6, '25The key to reducing your stress, is to have no ego: Not defensive, Not reactive. You let people simply have their say... - Take in & apply what is useful - Leave what is not useful3.4×102k2.9k3551k
85Oct 30, '21I speak to a lot of people, many who do very well in life. But what really makes people "happy?" Here's a thread on the things that I've found seem to make people the happiest. 1/3.2×05.3k1.4k2.5k
87Jun 10, '25A skill to master: The Ability to Reset, Fast. Have a bad moment? Feel it, and reset Have bad feedback? Feel it, and reset If you can contain a bad moment to 10 minutes, and not al3.1×94k2.6k4011.1k
88May 16, '21I've been ridiculously fortunate to have talked to people doing incredible things. Here's a thread of 9 psychological elements I see over and over again that will drive you forward3.0×04.1k1.1k2.9k
89Feb 14, '22Some patterns I’ve seen in people who are Outliers, incredibly high performers in their areas, specifically in tech or finance. While these don't apply to all people or other field3.0×04.9k7202.9k
90Jul 8, '25A dangerous person in their work & life is the one that believes - in their bones - that they can figure anything out. Never count them out. That kind of mindset will take you 3.0×92k2.8k331737
92Dec 31, '24Went from the dentist to an emergency endodontist appointment, and everyone is sick & hacking. 1. When did people stop covering their mouths when they cough? 2. Why do people n2.9×87k3k39287
93Jun 1, '25One of the most dangerous distractions for highly capable people isn't social media... It's seeing possibility everywhere & being unable to limit your bets. You can't chase all2.9×86k2.5k331695
94Aug 16, '25Never been a better time to put your head down, ignore the noise, and build something great for yourself.2.5×74k2.5k406337
95May 24, '22There is a weird myth that making more money doesn't make you happier. I assure you it does. It makes your entire life easier. It takes away many concerns. It gives you options. No2.4×05.1k1.8k256
97Oct 15, '25You will be most alone in the most difficult times of your life... And if you survive them, they will make you fearless.2.2×66k2.5k349381
98Jun 10, '21Having a traditional job is literally the hardest way to make money.1.4×04.5k381133
99Mar 29, '22People waste a lot of time listening to podcasts, rather than taking action in their own life.1.4×03.9k374196
100Oct 2, '22I've been doing this work for over a decade... I've sat with Entrepreneurs, Athletes, Execs, in some of the top ventures in the world. They carry mindsets and ways of going about w1.1×01.8k137992
101Nov 22, '21No one likes to say it, but not being "on time" is disrespectful. No one thinks you're busy, they think you're a poor time manager. - Get yourself together. - Be the first one in t0.9×02.5k364125

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