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Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men

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J6 Political Prisoner. Dating + Relationship Coach. Helping men who want healthy relationships to attract & keep their dream girl. 360+ clients happily served.

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1Sep 7, '23My sentencing is tomorrow, 9/8 at 10AM Please pray for me, and most especially for my family.547×12M16k1.3k474
2Apr 1, '25What she's saying is common and she's not wrong - women do bear a disproportionate amount of childcare and housework, and when both parents have jobs, this inevitably creates resen344×7.5M34k3.2k15k
3Mar 8, '25In a different era this man would have written a symphony or discovered calculus A large part of our decline is because our creative energy has been siphoned into overcoming imagin132×2.9M44k2.3k4k
4Oct 29, '2410 THINGS I LEARNED IN PRISON On Sunday I was released from Federal Prison, one year to the day that I came in. Here are 10 things I learned during this crucible:128×2.8M7.4k1k4.1k
5Sep 8, '234 years incarceration. 3 years supervised release. $20,000 fine. $2,000 restitution.114×2.5M4.1k752208
6May 1, '23Yeah she's attractive but what makes her stand out is her expressiveness. Lost art in the SSRI generation101×2.2M15k1.4k2.6k
7Oct 24, '25Ugly woman supports rape and ruin of attractive woman. Story as old as time, this is why we have fairy tales about the evil witch and the princess76.9×1.7M40k3.8k2.3k
8Oct 13, '25One of my (white) childhood friends got into University of Michigan Aerospace Engineering for his masters Except he actually didn't. A few months later they said his GPA - from an 49×1.1M16k1.6k2.4k
9Apr 5, '23So many men are going to fall prey to this Lord have mercy upon us all38.7×848k1.5k8257
10Oct 31, '25I genuinely believe you are operating in good faith. But you and all the other conservative, Christian women who get on stage and talk about the problems with men (regardless of ho34.9×766k3.8k5822.4k
11Apr 3, '23I am not a vindictive person, but I do keep track of who's been there for me when the "chips were down" and who found it inconvenient. You may not be my enemy, but you've lost the 34.3×752k2.8k24592
12Aug 13, '25A lot of guys misunderstand the Bezos / Sanchez relationship Sanchez introduced Bezos to a world of sexual abundance that he never got with his ex wife (you can see from her photos29.9×656k3.5k1351.8k
13Oct 19, '25Note she never once said she was attracted to him29.4×644k2.1k57246
14Sep 6, '23The reason Jung is both the most impressive psychologist and the most ignored by mainstream psychology is because he understood eventually all psychological questions become spirit25.9×568k1.6k269301
15Apr 27, '23My wife got bone broth protein collagen to put in morning coffee I take about 3 scoops daily. I swear nothing I've ever taken has been such a gamechanger I actually feel 10 years y23.8×521k1.2k1021.2k
16Nov 9, '25Wow a woman knows how to get laid. So impressive22.6×496k2k35112
17Mar 14, '25You can't have it both ways. At some point soon western women are going to have to choose whether they want to feel feminine and cherished or whether they want to be equal.20.8×457k4.1k325349
18Oct 27, '23I am heading into prison presently. Wanted to thank all of you for the good times. But this is not goodbye for ever. I will be back, I promise, and I expect sooner than many think.20.8×456k1.9k207178
19Oct 13, '23She's right about this. Most women single in their 30s are there because they had a serious relationship in their 20s that failed. Usually because the man wasn't mature enough to m20.4×448k1.3k118507
20Oct 25, '23Our daughter had colic for a couple of months. It was "hard." I remember walking her around the house, half-asleep at 3AM, trying to get her down. For my wife the ordeal was obviou19.5×428k1.4k110215
21Aug 8, '23Most men will never admit it, but they get bored of women without a little crazy.18.1×398k1.1k81184
22Sep 25, '25This is going to get me a lot of grief from some circles But "dating for marriage" is a fools errand in 2025. It doesn't work. It just turns women off If you meet a girl with any I18×394k2.2k1171.6k
23Jul 23, '25I don't like making posts like this. I love women, I'm a believer in Christ, and healthy relationships between men and women are important to me. It is indeed my life work. But the17.6×385k2k200671
24Nov 26, '24I know not everybody loves @Cobratate . But I’ll always remember when most of Twitter was distancing themselves from me over my J6 arrest, and even guys I had stuck my neck out for17.3×380k3.6k237265
25Aug 11, '25Do you think any single man would want to be married to these women? Would they want to be married at all if this is the experience they're selling? This is the branding crisis tha16.9×371k4.1k187712
26Jan 4, '25I've warned about this for years on here to all the "passport bros." Your woman doesn't exist in a vacuum. Take a materially-poor girl away from her traditional environment and bri14.1×310k1.9k175453
27Nov 18, '25I will get a lot of hate for this from some mutuals but this was a long time coming. Andrew has a lot of skeletons in his closet and never operated in good faith. He was the anti-C13.4×293k2.5k74581
28Sep 13, '25Erika Kirk is best example you'll ever get of why ambitious men cannot afford to marry weak-willed women. Charlie chose well.12.7×279k15k702539
30Sep 29, '25I got together with my wife at 25 and we were married at 27 People have WAY to much criteria for others compared to what they demand of themselves You should be looking for someone12.4×272k3.1k2351.8k
32Nov 15, '25Sensitivity indicates a man is a romantic. These are the only types who change anything in the world; they believe in an ideal so much they're willing to risk themselves for it. In12.2×268k4.8k4151.7k
33Nov 18, '25"You get no authority over me but have to take responsibility for me" "You have to treat me like an equal but also lead & take care of me" "There's nothing wrong with this &amp12.1×264k3.9k301806
35Jun 30, '23The lack of maturity & real world experience in this corner of the internet is staggering. One big LARP after another. Would be funny except a lot of guys have ruined perfectly11.6×254k9526796
37Oct 26, '25No man wants sex with an unaroused woman. The frustration is that their wives are disinterested in sex and don't seem to care that this is destroying their marriages. Women have se10.8×238k2.3k90404
39Aug 4, '25Most men are not really unwilling to "step up" and take on all the demands that marriage and fatherhood places on them, they are simply unwilling to take on extra responsibilities 10×219k3.9k269483
41Nov 17, '25Women want equal partnership but they also want to be cared for and want their men to lead. In other words they want authority without responsibility, they want to be cherished for9.5×208k1.9k145580
43Oct 27, '24It's good to be back8.5×187k1.3k5659
44Jun 20, '25All the men I've met who truly love and care for women (and are loved in turn) don't act fazed at most of what they say and do The guys who end up hating women the most are the guy8.4×183k3.6k1901.3k
45Sep 27, '25She's 42. Her maximum acceptable age is 45. Guy shouldn't be divorced or have kids of his own. Wants to start a family in 2-3 years. Just so unserious The money women will burn to 7.7×170k1.3k2973
46Oct 13, '25Half of a woman's job making her husband happy is keeping herself in reasonable shape and being sexually available The other half is not being an entitled bitch So I am going to sp7.7×168k1.5k100577
47May 7, '25Why does no one on fitness twitter talk about swimming? Seems like it should be a great way to tone up and get cardio. Is it just inconvenient or am I missing something?7.5×164k2.5k46223
48Apr 28, '25My former fitness trainer with a big IG used to tell me that every percentage of fat he cut got him more attention from women, until he crossed into single digits. After that his a7.3×161k1.5k58332
49Aug 30, '25The smarter you are, the more bold you have to be.7.0×153k4.1k3651.9k
50Mar 7, '25Wives say this all the time. It's incredible. I don't know if they are lying to their husbands or themselves but they're lying. Every woman wants their man stronger.7.0×153k1.1k23162
51Mar 24, '25Guys will understandably tell another side of this story. But it's absolutely true many if not most women single in their 30s had a long relationship in their 20s that went nowhere6.9×150k1k42195
52Aug 4, '25A lot of guys get LIVID when you say this. But it's the reality Girls in relationships are totally ON limits Many top tier girls are always taken. They have the options to not be s6.8×150k1.1k39459
53Nov 10, '25Men are expendable, this is true, and the bottom cohort of us was never meant to reproduce. But the corollary to this observation is that nature designed women to share the top men6.5×143k2.5k167515
54Jul 12, '25Men vastly underestimate how meaningless life would be without women6.3×138k1.8k143210
55Jun 6, '25I woke up this morning, 37 years old for the first time, to this view. Amalfi coast. Beautiful wife, 6 months pregnant with my next son. Warm croissants, cappuccino, and fresh sque5.6×123k1.5k81228
56Oct 27, '25I have worked with guys who are jacked, super successful breadwinners who not only paid for nannies to help their wives but did much of the childcare themselves. And guess what? Th5.3×116k1.2k72507
57Jul 24, '25This isn't how you gain compliance or respect from a woman. It's the kind of thing a guy who has never had success with women would say.4.8×105k1.1k32121
58Aug 3, '21Hold the line.4.7×05.4k38740
59Sep 24, '25Women have absolutely no idea how powerful compliments are for a man. They've forgotten how to tap into the charm of the muse I don't think they grasp how many men would move mount4.5×99k2.7k157456
60Aug 12, '25Most men have affairs not because of their woman's looks / age, but because of how they are being treated in the relationship. The "other woman" makes them feel like more of a man 4.5×98k1.4k78337
61Oct 12, '25What is it about Christians today that they can't help but turn their faith into one big humiliation ritual. Why do they think this will convert anyone4.3×95k1.8k81155
62Oct 27, '25"A man should never force his wife to have sex" I agree, but if she always has an excuse he needs to be willing to leave her "Oh so you're just telling guys to break up their marri4.3×94k1.5k85198
63May 30, '25There is a crisis of masculinity because men have spent their whole life being hectored by loud and obnoxious women with main character syndrome. Masculinity is coming back, but no4.2×92k1.8k201285
64Jan 10, '25The mainstream narrative that marriage for young women is gross and abusive but sex with strangers is normal and healthy is one of the craziest cognitive dissonances ever created3.9×86k1.9k387125
65Apr 23, '25Worked with enough guys to know your "trad girl virgin" approaching 30 isn't especially moral, she has severe anxiety and is terrified of intimacy3.9×86k1.1k32201
66Jan 21, '25I am hearing I have just been pardoned. Wow. God bless America. And God Bless @realDonaldTrump I will be at Ft. Dix tomorrow morning to meet my friends. I hear they are all set to 3.6×80k1.3k6718
67Jan 21, '25Post-pardon message. It's official.3.5×78k1.5k10652
68Oct 21, '25"There's no housing shortage millenials just refuse to admit they've dropped a full social class behind their parents"3.3×73k1.6k8294
69Sep 30, '25You should be trying to seduce your wife in front of your kids. Groping her. Teasing her. Flirting. Making her feel like an object of desire. They'll find it "gross" as they get ol3.2×69k1.2k35211
70Nov 16, '25The red pill, as toxic as it can be, is a direct response to men's experiences in the world with women infected by feminism. Male online commentary may have accelerated the decline3.1×69k1.1k68285
71Oct 29, '25This is what most guys are *actually* angry about and why they are refusing to get married One thing to be dead bedroomed with a "good girl" But for a girl who was partying & h3.0×65k1.4k64259
72Sep 13, '25Their marriage underlines the myopia in this corner of the internet. A lot of guys here are obsessed with experiencing a woman's raw desire, they think it's the pinnacle of a man's3.0×65k1.5k87195
73Oct 10, '2590% of people's pursuit of sex is really just about getting validation from the opposite sex. Sex is simply the most distilled form of it2.9×63k1.1k51177
74Mar 18, '19Imagine if these people spent this time cleaning up their local park or beach instead.2.7×02.5k5478
76May 30, '25Maybe it's an unpopular opinion But you should be allowed to run over people who intentionally block & refuse to let cars pass. I don't mean simply being in the way, but ignori2.6×56k1.1k5824
77Oct 17, '18A curious young man is a wise old man.2.4×02.1k56080
78Jun 22, '25It's a source of immense satisfaction for liberal women to humiliate their husbands.2.4×52k1k39136
79Oct 16, '22Women are energy conductors. They either give it to men to inspire action (muse) or take it from them and drain them of life-force (succubus) Which woman you end up with will liter2.3×01.7k269393
80Jun 30, '19Guys - if you spend your 20s consciously exploring and maturing, your 30s will be a golden decade.1.9×01.6k41390
81Dec 7, '22The easier a woman makes it for a man to please her, the more he will want to.1.8×02.1k14058
85Jul 30, '20The man who gives up on himself, inevitably turns his hatred towards everyone who hasn't.1.4×01.1k27096
86Apr 29, '21Last night the feds held my wife for over an hour at the airport - tore apart her luggage, confiscated her phone, and then proceeded to interrogate her about "what she meant" in pr1.4×01.3k19554
87Nov 9, '17Three types of mental states: - Distracted - Flow - Present /11.4×01.1k29863
88Nov 13, '22Please welcome my first son, Michael Alonzo Stedman to this world. Another fast labor - 2.5 hours in total. My wife is incredible.1.3×01.6k1121
89Mar 30, '19Broken people fall “in love” so regularly and so intensely because it is one of the few ways they can temporarily feel whole.1.3×01k29570
90Dec 17, '20Probably not gonna be a periscope today, sorry guys1.3×01.4k514
91Oct 26, '22One of the things modern women simply do not grasp about men Is that they will do almost anything for a girl they love, take on any added burden All that is required is SHE ASK HIM1.2×01.1k112171
92Nov 2, '22If your girl is obsessed with you wearing condoms and is terrified of getting pregnant she doesn't really love you1.1×01k8697
93Aug 23, '25Please welcome my son Thomas into the world! My wife has always had quick births but this one was less than 1 hour and I had to deliver him myself. Everyone is doing amazing, feeli1.1×25k1.3k126
94Jan 10, '21I have to say I though Andrew Torba was a bit crazy to keep persisting with Gab despite it's tiny (and for a time, extreme) userbase. But his vision & dedication have been vind1.1×01.1k17414
95Dec 30, '21If you're a man, playing the victim doesn't work.1.1×01.2k9742
96Sep 29, '21It's all fake.1.0×01.1k9578
97Aug 28, '21Not for that - to move the money without paying taxes on it. All high-end modern art is money laundering.1.0×01.1k13343
98Nov 7, '20I don't know who needs to hear this but just because the media says someone is President it doesn't mean it's actually happening. Nothing has changed - except they're played their 1.0×091214422
99Dec 12, '22Nothing says "societal collapse" more than pregnant girls going on Tinder for casual sex0.9×01k6938
101Dec 9, '22Thread of client successes and testimonials, with brief background on results (You can apply here if you want to work with me: ) 🧵0.4×01812592

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